Genesis 15: 1-6
Phil. 3: 17-4:1
Luke 13: 31-35
“How often have I desired to gather your children together as a hen gathers her brood under her wings, and you were not willing!”
Prayer: Please open our ears and hearts, O God, that we may truly listen and discern your word for us. Amen.
Our Lenten season of deepening our spiritual growth began with what it means to be in the wildernesses of life, to embrace those wildernesses, and stay in them awhile to sojourn. We’ve heard that practicing prayer while we sojourn is important. Staying focused while we’re there, likewise. No squirrelling! Now, for today, another part of our growth while sojourning the wilderness, while staying in it is—be willing to listen.
We’re encouraged not to be like Larry David who was in a very pricy Super Bowl commercial that featured Larry naysaying every new idea that came down the line in history. “I call it the wheel,” one man says to Larry, the Egyptian. “Nah, I don’t think so” Larry says. The ad goes through a bunch of items, newly invented—the fork, the toilet, coffee, the right to vote, a light bulb, automatic dishwasher, putting a man on the moon, portable music, and finally cryptocurrency (which is what the ad is trying to sell, by the way)… and to all of them the naysayer Larry just never listens and poo-poos every single idea. Larry ends up saying, “I’m never wrong about these things…” Yeah right, of course he is. And the ad ends with “Don’t be like Larry.”
As crazy as it sounds, that’s not such bad advice. Don’t be like Larry—don’t choose not to listen. Don’t choose to be closed minded. Especially when it comes to hearing, and listening, and discerning what God might be saying at any given moment.
There’s a difference between all three of those words. Hearing is the first level, I think. You hear the words. They are sound waves. They hit your ear drums. Or you read them and you hear them in your head. Our brains give the words meaning based on our learning. But, we all know people who are hard of hearing or people who can not hear are not able easily to hear the sound of words.
Listening though, goes to a level deeper. Listening is when you apply meaning and feeling to the words you hear. When you really listen to someone’s words, you not only hear them audibly, but you also understand that person more deeply. You connect your feelings with their feelings, your thoughts with their thoughts as you understand them. I also take note of body language while listening. Then you can get where someone is really coming from—you may not agree with where they’re coming from, but you get it. On too many occasions, I think not enough people strive to get where a person is coming from. Too often I don’t think we listen carefully enough to each other.
Now discernment is a form of listening that’s on the deepest level. Discernment happens when you have both hearing and listening, and you add your faith and belief in God into the mix. When you allow God’s presence, God’s ways, God’s standards to highly influence what you think next. When you allow God to help you decide what to say and do next, how you choose to be faithful. What you choose to believe. On any given topic. It’s all influenced by God. That’s listening with prayerful discernment.
We can continuously discern God’s call upon our lives, how to vote during elections, or when to make a job change. We can listen with discernment as we respond to the wildernesses in our lives like when a crisis occurs, or when dark times are upon us. Prayerful discernment listening is important for societal and cultural concerns, like how we respond to the crisis in the Ukraine, or what we say about the LGBTQ concerns, about violence in society, or how we handle our relationships.
I’m trying to listen with discernment to people in our church who differ from me politically. Or, theologically. Or, in concepts like extravagant welcome for anyone. Or, justice for those treated unfairly and marginalized in society and other places in the world. To hear what God may be saying through their voice and perspectives involves prayerful discernment listening.
It’s easy just to write off those folks who disagree with you, or try to shut them down, or just walk away and ignore them and don’t relate to them anymore. But the truth is that more than likely doesn’t solve anything and often can make it feel worse. The high, more difficult road is to listen with discernment to anyone, in any conversation. To practice this deep level of discernment in any big decision or little decision, in any major topic or trivial topic, any relationship—all of it can use discernment listening.
The question is—are we willing? Are we willing to listen for God’s influence on anything in our lives? For any topic? For any situation we face? In any relationship? For any and all of the wildernesses in our lives?
You know, if you think about it, Jesus was going through a wilderness of his own. Here he is, a Jewish man, doing God’s work, casting out demons, healing folks, and the leader of the Jewish people wants him dead! Talk about a wilderness Jesus faced! But Jesus, totally under God’s influence said—you go back and tell that sly fox that I am not going to stop doing God’s work until it’s done on the third day. Of course, ‘the third day’ alludes to Easter which is the completion of the larger healing work of salvation that God did and is doing through Jesus Christ for the human race.
But the part that really caught my attention was Jesus’ lament. Because the people were unwilling to listen to the prophets whom God previously sent to them. Unwilling to hear God’s voice in what those prophets were saying. Unwilling to see what God was doing through those prophets and now through Jesus. Because the people of Jerusalem were unwilling to listen with discernment to the message that Jesus was doing God’s main work of salvation. Oh how often God wanted to gather them all in, like a hen gathers her broad, and love them with grace, and fill their hearts with the spirit, but they were unwilling! Turning away from God’s gift of grace and love—what a wilderness they entered into.
Let it not be that way for us! Let us be willing to listen to the truth that God’s grace abounds in every single moment. That we can live as people transformed by grace. That we can participate in God’s story of love as Abram’s descendants, and be as numerous as the stars in the sky. We can live in ways that help the existence of others and other living things. Even if such participation comes and brings desperate moments. Even if it involves inconvenience. Or struggle. Or resistance to the demons that lurk in the wilderness.
I caught a small article about an unusual sort of non-violent resistance against Russia taking place in Kyiv, Ukraine. The war with Russia broke up the orchestra that was part of the Ukrainian National Tchaikovsky Academy of Music. But, recently the musicians discerned that it was time to come together and perform an outdoor concert in the center square of Kyiv, under the open sky despite the threat of bombs falling, missile threats and air raid sirens. “It was an effort to show the entire world that we are not afraid to have this concert in the heart of Kyiv,” one musician said. “We play it under the open sky.” The concert was intended to soothe loss and comfort fear, to remember their welfare and to stir patriotism. Conductor Herman Makarenko said, “Our eastern neighbor says Ukraine hasn’t any culture. We would like to show we have culture, one of the best in the world” (Kyiv’s orchestra strikes up note of resistance with outdoor concert - The Washington Post) retrieved March 11, 2022). It may seem like a little thing, but it was a defiant act of courage and strength against the demon of Russian aggression.
When we really listen with discernment, good people doing little things like that defiant resistance can help move our world closer to the world God envisions for all people. Little steps of God’s divine influence during our sojourn in our wilderness helps us say yes to God’s divine possibilities.
Rev. Dr. Jacqui Lewis of Renewed Heart Ministries wrote, “A movement to build a more just society begins with little steps taken by good people every day. Humankind desperately needs a love revolution that leads to equality and equity, to the end of [societal demons] once and for all. You have the power to be an agent of change in your everyday living; you can influence your posse to also be the change you seek. And ultimately, together, in community, small steps can lead to morally courageous behavior that loves the world all the way to healing” (Jacqui Lewis, Fierce Love, pp. 167-168).
Let us be willing to take those little steps. Let us be willing to listen with discernment to God’s Stillspeaking voice, loving others and the world all the way to healing. Let us be willing not to say, “That’ll never work,” but instead to say, “I can’t wait to see how God will help us make a way to create the world God wants us to have.” Le t us be quiet and listen with discernment. Amen.
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