Deut. 30: 9-14
Luke 10: 38-42
“She had a sister named Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet and listened to what he was saying.”
Prayer: Grant us wisdom, grant us courage, for the living of these days, for the living of these days. Amen.
The Mary / Martha story can evoke many thoughts, feelings, questions and are you a Mary? Are you a Martha? Even memories for a lot of us. For me, one memory came to my mind this past week… from way back in my college fraternity days. Our Theta Chi fraternity had just built a new house, and I was the Vice President in charge of making the move from the old house to the new. Well, in the transition, we became in need of a cook. Long story short, I took on the job cooking for my 40 brothers. [I know… you’re learning a lot about me right now… fraternity brother, VP of a frat house (don’t hold that against me), love to cook…]
Well, after three months or so of living in the new house, we had a weekend celebration to officially commission the new house, and we invited the national President of Theta Chi to be our guest of honor. Mr. George Killivus, I think his name was. [don’t quote me!] it’s been a long time! He graciously came and spent the weekend with us. As I remember it, the main event was a picnic Saturday afternoon, and I made all the food. Y’know… the usual stuff… baked beans, mac n cheese, macaroni salad, hamburgers, hotdogs, etc. I had everything ready about a half hour beforehand.
And, right about then, Mr. Killivus went to the living room, sat down, and was chatting with some of my brothers. I stayed in the kitchen. One of my brothers, the President, Mark Collins, came to me and said, “What are you doing? The national President is here, and you’re puttering in the kitchen! You got the picnic ready. Go listen to him. But, I get it… you wouldn’t be anywhere else, would you?” A loving rebuke. But, he was right. I was at a less mature place in life and thought that it was expected of me to be “puttering in the kitchen.” I was the cook, after all. And, I missed the really important stuff.
Culturally, in Jesus’ day, Martha was expected to be puttering in the kitchen while Jesus was their houseguest. That’s what women were supposed to do in that culture. Women certainly were not the ones to be seated at the feet of the rabbi, the teacher. That was for men folk only. Men were the learned ones. Not so for women in that culture.
So, when Martha asks, “Don’t you care that my sister has left me to do all the work,” she really is complaining that by sitting around, Mary is not only making Martha do everything, but Mary is also bucking against cultural norms… It’s not her place. She was defying the role women were supposed to have. And, when Jesus says Mary has chosen the better part, he not only is also bucking cultural norms, but he also elevated women and approved of women being learned and taking part in what typically was reserved for men. He challenged cultural stereotypes.
Leave it to Jesus to point out what really is important and what easily can distract from that important stuff. Because he lovingly he rebuked Martha, and taught that what’s really important is being in God’s Presence. That’s the center point. Center on God first and keeping distractions at bay. Jesus doesn’t say that Martha should not do the chores, but if there’s an opportunity to be in God’s Presence, then dusting is a distraction cultural norms are a distraction and must give way to devotion.
I think when it comes to the spiritual life, when it comes to the journey in a life of faith, we live in a Martha world. There’s so much that we think we have to do that can distract us from the center point. I mean you name it… so many people are worried and distracted by many things: the economy, crime in our neighborhoods, the environment, places in society where things are just not fair. Paying off debt, finding a new job, what will retirement be like, one’s physique, wrinkles, or aging appearance, diet issues, meeting goals, whether they are good parents, broken relationships—those are just some of the top worries taken from a 2019 survey.
And those things act on our lives like they have centrifugal force. That’s the apparent reactionary force we feel when we’re in a car, and if the car swerves quickly to the left, we feel like we’re being pushed to the right, in the opposite direction. Distractions do that. They push us away from the center point. They distract us from what really matters in life.
Conversely, what really matters in life acts like it has centripetal force. This is a real force that pulls everything toward the center. Like water in a whirlpool, everything in the water is constantly being drawn to the center. Focusing on God first constantly draws us into the center point of being in God’s Presence. So does taking time to nurture faith with devotions and daily prayer. Choosing to be like Mary and sit at Jesus’ feet and listen to what he is saying makes you feel the centripetal force of faith. It draws you toward what’s really important. Worshipping on Sundays or any day draws you into what's really important.
And, I think that centripetal energy of faith might be related to what Moses is saying in Deuteronomy… that being drawn into the center point of a life with God means for one, you learn to follow God’s ways. Moses was big on being obedient to God and following God’s ways. But, for two, if you read the entire book, you realize that Moses was also all about people having faith and trust in God, especially in difficulty, or crisis, or decision-making. And, for three, he emphasized focusing on God, as in being in relationship with the Divine, turning to God with all your heart.
The centripetal energy of faith draws us in to the center point and we realize that all three —following and obeying God’s ways, having faith and trust in God, and focusing on being in relationship with God—are best when all three happen in tandem. When all three are in sync, amazing possibilities of God’s divine involvement happens.
You may recall that two Sundays ago, I was besieged with a sudden, nasty case of vertigo. Which rendered me useless to lead worship, much less preach a sermon. But, the centripetal energy of faith drew in our very capable leaders who stepped up and followed in Gods’ ways by leading worship. Joanne and Bob and Amy and Brooke and Conner and Corty and Dale all stepped up in faith and trust and were focused on God’s divine Presence, whether they were aware of it consciously or not. Who cares if worship didn’t go as originally planned? Such is the way of the Spirit sometimes.
The point is… it’s not the amount of time we spend doing God-things that makes us God-centered—it’s whether or not God is at the center of the things we do. Let the greatest influence in our everyday lives be God, in all we do. (based on Steven Case. Everything Counts, Zondervan, Youth Specialties, 2003, pg. 167). That’s what our leaders did that Sunday.
And the chores we need to do, the dusting, and the cleaning, the cooking, and the taking care of this and that, these are not done begrudgingly, but with the centripetal energy of faith, zeroing in on the center point, the drudge work is transformed into holy work. Because Martha’s work must be done. Getting down and dirty must be done. Driving me home must be done. Preaching a sermon must be done. Welcoming a new member must be done.
And as a church, seeking justice and fairness must be done. Responding to social issues must be done. Forgiving each other, loving even the unlovely all must be done. But, it all gets transformed into holy moments, when God is first, when God is the center point, and God is in it.
And you know what the really cool part is? That this life with God as our center point is doable. It is not out of reach. It’s not far off! Feeling the centripetal energy of faith is not beyond our capacity. And it certainly is not dependent upon how good we are, or how well we’ve lived, or if we’ve made amends of our mistakes, or if we’ve prayed enough, or gone to church enough, ore read the bible enough. No, none of that. That is not the way it works.
It works by God’s grace. Jesus came for all the Mary’s and the Martha’s of the world—that’s all of us are some of the time, and some of us all of the time. All we have to do is decide to have God be the center point of everything we do. And God’s Presence and grace are there! And we won’t miss the important stuff. Thanks be to God. Amen.
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