Rev. Dr. Galen E. Russell III | May 26, 2024
Romans 8:12-17; John 3:1-17
Jesus answered him, “Very truly, I tell you, no one can see the kingdom of God without being born from above.”
Prayer: O Spirit of God, please bear witness in our spirits, that we may live and breathe as your children. Amen.
One of the more fun parts about my job as a pastor is that I get to work with couples who want to get married. Now, I know some of my colleagues would disagree with me on this, saying that weddings are a pain in the butt part of the job, but I enjoy it. And this year, I’ve had the good fortune of working with two couples so far, and have two more scheduled for later in the year.
In the premarital work that I do with the couple, I often give a little quiz. Some of you have done this quiz with me. It’s a true/false quiz. And almost immediately when I say that I’m giving them a quiz, they go “oh, no.” Fear sets in. Memories of getting bad grades at school come back. Maybe they wonder if the quiz will show some incompatibility.
And I have to say, “Fear not. It’s true/false, yes, but there are no wrong answers. Go with your first impression. It’s just a matter of perspectives.” Then we talk about the differences.
For example, the first statement on the quiz is true or false… “There is only one right person who will be your best marriage partner.” One person will say that statement is true for a variety of reasons. And the other person will say it’s false for a bunch of different reasons. And it’s like, “Wait. What?” Then they talk to each other sharing their perspectives. They practice the art of honoring and listening to and understanding each other, giving credence to each one’s perspective, without judging it. Just accepting it. And that helps them learn more about each other. It’s an “aha!” moment! They can “see” each other more deeply.
And that’s what I think Jesus’ response to Nicodemus is partly about… to see the realm of God more deeply. I mean Nicodemus sees on the surface, right? He sees with his eyes the marvelous things Jesus has done, and he figures that God must be with him. But Jesus invites Nicodemus to see more deeply. He must see beyond the surface of good deeds to down deep where the Spirit is at work in those good deeds.
And in order to see down deep, Jesus teaches that one must have an inner willingness. A desire to open your heart to God and let the Spirit of God be born in you. God gets established in your life. And moves you deep within. You feel new life. You gain new insights, new perspectives.
That’s what I think it means to be born from above. Don’t think spatially. It’s not up and down, or left and right. The Spirit doesn’t literally come from above you. It comes into you. From all around you. Then the Holy Spirit living in you becomes the lens through which you can see the realm of God. The Spirit of God alters what you see, how you see the world around you. And that perspective can change everything. It helps you see more deeply.
So, instead of seeing just another human being, regardless of race or nationality, through the lens of the Holy Spirit, you see a child of God. Someone whom God loves deeply and is an heir to all God’s blessings, just like you and me.
Instead of seeing just another plant or tree or animal, we see the energy of God’s Spirit on this wonderful planet.
Instead of eating a broken piece of bread and drinking a small thimble-full of juice during Communion, we see and feel the power of God that can nourish our inner spirit in the context of remembering God’s Son, Jesus Christ.
You see? Being born from above means the Spirit can change your perspective. You can see God’s kingdom here. Be heavenly minded, but also see the earthly good.
The Spirit plays an interesting role in this story of Nicodemus and Jesus because it has sort of has a freeing feel to it, don’t you think? I mean Jesus teaches that the Spirit blows where it will. It is unshackled. Always free. Always moving. Always the creative energetic force of God.
And Jesus teaches that people born of the Spirit are the same way. Free. Unshackled. Not bound up by one perspective. Open-minded.
We get shackled when we get stuck on one perspective, I think. Hopelessly caught up in the trap of thinking and believing our way is the only way. And worse, not letting any other perspectives be moments of learning shackles people even more. To stop learning and growing by the Spirit is a very grave sin.
That’s what feels like is going on in the world. Global political leaders are absolutely refusing to see any perspectives other than their own, it seems to me. Absolutely repudiating any efforts toward a cease-fire. Absolutely rejecting an end to the hostile take over. And war continues. And death and destruction, too. And the global situation is hopelessly caught in this trap and will never get out.
Because war never brings peace. Only a willingness to come to the table to converse and negotiate can do that. Hatred of others can never bring healthy relationships. Only letting go of those hatreds and letting love transform from within can do that.
So, those three things—1) a willingness to be open to different perspectives, and 2) letting go of the past hatreds, and 3) letting love transform I think might be key ways of unshackling ourselves from the trap.
Because a willing and open mind acknowledges that there is always a fuller perspective. It’s like the old preacher parable of blind people who’ve never seen an elephant before. And one blind person is standing at the elephant’s leg and says, “Oh! An elephant is like a big tree trunk.” And the next blind person has a hand on the elephant’s side and says, “No, that’s not it. An elephant must be like a wall.” And a third blind person is holding the elephant’s trunk and says, “You’re both wrong. An elephant has to be like a snake.” The last one holds the tail and says, “You’re all crazy. It’s clear an elephant is like a rope.”
Well, obviously all are wrong, and all are partially right, too. But it’s only when the heart and mind are willing to broaden their perspectives from the others’ perspectives are they able to “see” more fully what an elephant truly is.
So what does that mean? It means that my way does not have to be the universal default. It means that sometimes I must step into someone else’s shoes for a new perspective. It means don’t stop “seeing” from other points of view. Hear each other out. It means at times I have to be humble enough to be partially wrong, astute enough to be partially right, and wise enough to let the change in perspective help me see more fully what God wants me to see.
And it means letting go of the past hatreds and fear and prejudices. It means letting go of stubbornness and snarky-ness and smart-alec-y-ness. Letting all that go, so that the Spirit can help us shape a new normal. A new normal that is not content with what once was. A new normal that isn’t shackled to the past with its partially right perspectives that are also partially wrong.
Instead, a new normal where the Spirit helps love transform us from within. Where we dare to let that holy love be the lens we look through to see people. Where we let love color the way we make decisions… big ones and every day ones. In our lives, our relationships, our church. Where we let love be the key ingredient of our new normal.
Because love is the perspective that changes everything. Because out of love, God sent Jesus into the world, not to condemn us, but to save us. Not to give us false hope, but to lead us to eternal life by simply believing. In our hearts.
So, let the Spirit adopt us, and lead us, to be children of God, Christians in our heart. To be more loving. To be more holy.
Lord, I want to be a Christian in my heart, in my heart
Lord, I want to be a Christian in my heart, in my heart
In my heart, in my heart,
Lord I want to be a Christian in my heart.
Lord I want to be more loving, in my heart, in my heart…
Lord, want to be more holy, in my heart, in my heart.
Amen.
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