Rev. Fa Lane | May 12, 2024
Acts 1:15-17, 21-26; John 17:6-19
O Lord, we pray for the mothers who are loving and courageous, hardworking, and patient; mothers who seem tireless even when they are exhausted. We give thanks also for fathers, grandmothers and grandfathers, aunts and uncles who sometimes play the mothering role when necessary. We are grateful for the nurturing example of Jesus, who taught us how to care for one another. He called everyone his brother or sister. Holy Spirit, open our minds and our hearts that we shall do the same. Amen.
As we observe Mother’s Day today, and honor the Christian Home, today’s lectionary story is about Jesus being concerned for the welfare of those he’ll leave behind when he is taken by the Romans.
When he is crucified, his followers will be left without his leadership or his protection. Jesus, like a good parent is worried about those who have been in his care.
The disciples have grown from the original foursome of Simon, Andrew, James, and John whom he recruited while they were fishing. It’s not really clear just how many were in the band of Jesus followers all told, only a few men are named, and women were not often recognized in the Writings. In the Acts passage it counts 120 at that particular event.
In the John passage Jesus is speaking to God about pre-Acts people he knows well. He has taught them, traveled with them, seen to it that they were fed, argued for them, and ministered to and with them.
He states that they were God’s responsibility before, but now his, and knowing he is to leave earth soon, Jesus pleas for God to protect them after he’s gone. Jesus says “What’s yours are mine. I have made your name known to them.” He wants his followers to have the same relationship that he and God have… a oneness that is secure, a relationship that is tight, safe, and dependable. He is having what we call anticipatory grief.
The parents of these graduating seniors know this feeling acutely. Over 18 years, a mother morphs from being a baby’s center of the universe, to one day seeing them live in another home or some other town to start the next phase of their life, not under her watchful eye. Moms, Dads, and grandparents will hope and pray for the child’s success, for a steady job, good income, recognition, a proud standing in the community and loving relationships.
The data is clear that the single-biggest factor in determining happiness is not money, social class, or IQ. It’s strong relationships. We teach our children about making friends: Make new friends but keep the old. Parents trust that their kids are likeable and able to make friends because having strong ties to a community can help us live longer, protect memory and language function, and diminish stress and depression.
So, we parents pray as we drive away and hold back tears that they’ll have good, healthy relationships under God’s watchful eye. Jesus prays that for his disciples, that their relationship with one another would keep them connected to God like Jesus was … as one. We are going to follow his lead today and pray for the children. I ask you to think of the names of the children in your own family to say aloud in a minute.
As a mother, when I rocked my children to sleep, I prayed they would stay healthy, be happy, feel safe and find it easy to love; to laugh often and find surprising moments of joy.
Let us pray that young people develop the ability to problem solve, to gather friends who will encourage them and celebrate with them. Let us pray that they are self-assured, smart, confident in choosing their field of work or service.
When Jesus realizes his time on earth is short, he begs God to watch over the disciples, to keep them safe when he can’t be there to intervene, to redirect them, to feed and protect them and to love them in person.
I invite us to pray for the children whom we have been given in our families, all ages infants to graduate. I invite you to name them aloud now. There are some sitting right here this morning.
Lord, we pray that you will watch over our babies. May they be held in loving arms as they grow -leaving from our arms and into the arms of the ones with whom they will share their life. May there also be strong arms of community members to guide them, to protect and respect them. With love and truth may they be taught their own worth. May they be bold in your name to take risks as they learn about the edges of their own abilities and the needs of a hurting world. May they develop characters bearing the likeness of Christ in their hearts and minds. Amen.
As I read the passage in John, I couldn’t help but wonder if there are others whom God has given to me? I met Reuben in 2007 and care about his family. We don’t even live on the same continent. If we’re to be like Jesus, then perhaps God asks us to care for young people who are not our offspring. God places these relationships in our lives, bends our hearts toward certain people. It’s a holy invitation to look beyond myself.
For whom shall I live my life in ways that protect the environment for them? For which children do we elect leaders with their future in mind? Are we able to help create, administrate, and advocate for fair school systems, for adequate medical care, for experiences that stretch a child’s mind and deepen respect and empathy within their heart? Am I able, like Jesus, to accept the responsibility, to nurture younger people who are new to me, unknown to me, from different towns and cultures, like when I moved here and met Abe and Josie, Hayden, and Alexis four years ago?
Remember in days gone by, when neighborhood children would go out to play together all day running the neighborhood from house to house all adults keeping a watchful eye for them?
Let us pray for the children in our neighborhoods or apartment complexes. If you know their names, say them aloud now. Let’s make a commitment to learn more of their names and pray for them each day.
Lord, we pray for the children of our own neighborhoods. May they be safe. May we show them your love by creating a safe community with them, no matter whom they love, or what sports they play or what books they read. May our schools and buses be places to strengthen bonds and to be excited about learning and exploring. May we encourage curiosity and shared understandings. May we celebrate their victories and bear up together in times of disappointment or grief. May we take care of one another as Jesus did his disciples, and strangers and the outcasts whom he met. Amen.
Can we pray for the children of Gaza and Kenya or the Sudans, Myanmar and Ukraine and Venezuela who are living in war-torn or gang-controlled countries or outrunning flood waters fleeing their homes, leaving their schools, their friends and other family members, desperately searching for safety and shelter.
Can we pray for the 40% of Etown school children who are on free or reduced lunch because their families aren’t able to provide food security? There are homeless children in Etown schools as many as could fill two full classrooms. Children and their families are “doubling up,” either living with other family or friends on a temporary basis, or in a shelter, a hotel or a car.
Homeless families are ones who do not have a stable location to go home to each evening. Some because of poverty, others because of a housefire or an emergent problem. Our school system is required to get these children the things they need: clothing, shoes, meals, mental health services, and bus transportation to school and back to wherever they are staying.
Let us pray for the children.
Lord, we are humbled out of our comfort zone to know there are children suffering because of storms, wars, poverty, or poor adult decisions. We pray these children find not only safety, security, and love but also educational support that helps them pursue their hopes and dreams. Lord, show us where we can help. We confess that we often think it’s someone else’s job. Help us open our eyes to serve the world’s children because whoever are yours are ours. Amen.
We pray with Jesus for the ones who will be left when we are gone. I believe God has given us a responsibility to risk caring about the children, the newborns, the young adult fledglings, and those transitioning out of college and into their adult life, no matter what age or where they are on life’s journey, they can use our prayers.
It might be a big fishbowl to gaze into, but Christ called fishermen. He said that his followers would go after people who needed to hear that God loves them. So, in honor of Mother’s Day, let us take good care of whomever God gives us.
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